21 best sex toys for couples in 2026, reviewed by Glamour's sexual wellness writer
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I write about sex toys for a living, and hands down, the number one thing my friends ask me about is the best sex toys for couples. Most people in long-term relationships get a little daunted at the thought of rabbit vibrators or cock rings. Single girlies? Give them a margarita, and they’ll happily rave about their go-to clit sucker. But couples toys? For some, it can feel like uncharted territory.
Here’s the thing: even the best sex toys for couples aren’t a replacement for a partner — they should never feel that way. Think of them as a way to bring something fresh to the bedroom, explore new types of pleasure, and deepen the intimacy you already share.
- The best sex toys for couples in 2026, approved by Glamour's sexual wellness writer
- How I test the best sex toys for couples
- What are the benefits of using couples' sex toys?
- How can you find a toy that meets both partners' needs?
- Should you split the cost of a couple's sex toy?
- How do you suggest a sex toy to your partner?
- Meet the experts
Take it from an expert: "Sex toys in a relationship are not a replacement — they are an addition, an enhancement, and a way to explore and pleasure one another in new and exciting ways, which are perhaps not always possible without them,” says sales executive and sexpert at So Divine, Laura Wood.
Still need a little convincing? New research from Flo Health suggests that more than 50% of women and people with vulvas aren’t fully satisfied with the quality of their orgasms. Another 37% said their partner doesn’t know what turns them on — a reminder that talking about your sexual likes and dislikes isn’t just normal, it’s healthy. So, for the sake of pleasure (and feminism), it might just be time to bring a toy to the party.
Not ready to drag your SO into an aisle filled with dildos? Don’t worry. We’ve got you covered with the best online sex toy shops and everything you need to know about adult toys for couples. From G-spot vibrators to bondage gear, I’ll spill all the tips I usually share with the girlies at brunch.
How I test the best sex toys for couples:
Testing is no laughing matter… it’s a moaning matter. In all seriousness, a lot of thought (and fun) goes into finding the best sex toys for couples. We’re not just after the top couples vibrator — we want the full suite of toys and accessories to please partners of all kinds. I’m thinking beyond just sex toys for married couples, too: friends with benefits, new couples, or seasoned pros all deserve a little extra fun.
With the help of willing volunteers — AKA members of the wider Glamour team and their partners — we’ve personally tested a host of vibrators and sex games. Paired with their favourite water-based lubes, we scrutinised every detail, including:
- Ease of use — Could they work out the control panel without a cover-to-cover read of the instruction manual?
- Speed and intensity of orgasm — Did it provide pleasurable sensations, or simply numb them?
- Design — Was it ergonomic, easy to hold and fit for purpose?
- Settings — Was there enough variety? Any unique patterns we haven't seen before?
- Volume — Could it count as a quiet vibrator? AKA, was it quieter than your electric toothbrush?
- Waterproof — Did it work effectively in the bath and/or shower?
Why you can trust me:
As a seasoned sex and relationships writer — and a seasoned dater — I’ve had plenty of opportunities to test the best adult toys for couples. The sexual wellness industry is constantly evolving: every week brings something new, whether it’s AI-powered dating apps, long-distance sex toys, or thrusting dildos. I stay on top of it all by attending press events, tracking new research, testing the latest releases, and speaking with leading sex experts and brand founders.
I’ve reviewed every category of sexual pleasure, from finger vibrators and bullet vibrators to anal toys and beyond. I aim to include fan favourites like Smile Makers, Ann Summers, Lovehoney, LELO, and SheSpot, alongside up-and-coming brands making waves in the sexual wellness space.
While I know this industry inside and out, it’s crucial to approach each product with multiple perspectives — from beginners to seasoned pros. I supplement my own experiences with honest feedback from friends and colleagues, as well as online reviews. I write from the perspective of a bisexual woman, but always aim to consider different genders, orientations, and identities when forming my verdicts.
Ahead, the best sex toys for couples in 2026, approved by Glamour's sexual wellness writer:
What are the benefits of using couples' sex toys?
Remember: introducing a sex toy isn’t a sign that you or your partner are dissatisfied — in fact, it’s usually the opposite. Using toys together lets you explore each other’s pleasure points, discover new sensations, and can even spark open conversations about what really turns you both on, boosting intimacy and satisfaction.
“Sex toys do things our bodies cannot — pulse, vibrate, and hit spots we can’t always reach,” explains sexologist Wood. “These sensations can help many people experience more consistent, frequent orgasms, which your partner will absolutely love to see and be a part of.”
Speaking of orgasms, the best sex toys for couples can also help bridge the orgasm gap. It’s no secret that cisgender straight men tend to climax more often than people with vaginas. According to YouGov, 30% of British women say they orgasm every time they have sex — compared to 61% of British men.
So, how do you level the playing field? Many couples’ toys deliver intense clitoral stimulation — crucial when only 18.4% of women report that penetration alone is enough to orgasm.
“When choosing a sex toy with your partner, think about what you want to get out of it,” Wood adds. “If penetration alone doesn’t usually get you there, a bullet vibrator is perfect — it can be used to stimulate the clitoris while still enjoying penetrative sex with a partner.”
How can you find a toy that meets both partners' needs?
“The most important starting point is communication,” explains Annabelle Knight, Sex and Relationships expert at Lovehoney. “Each partner should feel comfortable talking about what they’re curious about, what they enjoy, and any boundaries they have. From there, look for toys designed with couples in mind — ones that offer shared stimulation, flexible use, and opportunities for both partners to stay engaged.”
“Approaching it as something you’re choosing together, rather than something for just one person, ensures it feels inclusive, exciting, and mutually beneficial,” Knight continues.
For sexologist King, it’s about taking stock of your current sex life. “What feels fulfilling, and what would you like to explore or improve? Maybe you’re confident with genital-focused or penetrative sex, but want to broaden your sexual menu. Instead of just a traditional sex toy, try massage candles, oils, a feather tickler, or restraints like wrist ties and a blindfold — expanding into full-body pleasure can completely change the game.”
Should you split the cost of a couple's sex toy?
This is such a tough question, yet one we hear a lot. “People may do this in many cases, especially if it’s something you’re both planning to use and enjoy together," Knight explains. "Splitting the cost can make the purchase feel like a shared investment in your relationship and your intimacy, rather than something that one person is solely responsible for. It can also help both partners feel equally involved and excited about the experience.
“That said, every couple approaches money differently, and there’s no single ‘right’ way to handle it," Knight continues. "What matters most is that the conversation feels open, fair and comfortable for both of you. Whether one partner treats it as a gift or you decide to split the cost, the goal is for the decision to feel natural and mutually agreed.”
How do you suggest a sex toy to your partner?
“When suggesting a sex toy, timing and tone really matter," Knight says. “Choose a relaxed, pressure-free moment, not when either of you feels stressed or distracted. Frame it as something positive and exciting rather than as a solution to a problem. You might mention that you’ve read about something interesting, seen a product that sparked your curiosity, or that you’d love to explore something new together.”
“Keeping the conversation open, light and focused on connection helps your partner feel included rather than put on the spot," continues Knight. "Emphasise that it’s about enhancing what you already enjoy together, not replacing anything. When both people feel heard, respected and involved in the decision, the idea of trying a toy becomes something to look forward to rather than something that feels awkward or intimidating.”
Meet the experts:
| Laura Wood | Sales Executive and Sexpert at So Divine. |
| Emily King, | Sexologist at SheSpot. |
| Annabelle Knight | Sex and Relationships expert at Lovehoney. |



























